Many women wonder if they can get him back, regardless of how recently they broke up with him or how long ago it was.
There are some things you can do if you’re determined to win your ex back, but sometimes you just have to accept that it’s time to move on.
If you’ve figured out how to win your ex back, there are a few things you can try.
First, as you read on keep in mind that the Course in Miracles states, “The only way to completely change one’s mind about the relationship’s overall purpose would be through a radical change in purpose.”
Will playing tough or hard to get help me win him back?
Additionally, there are some actions you should probably avoid taking, such as acting as though you really do not want your ex.
A common strategy used by many women to win him back is to play the hard to get, but a lot of the time, this only serves to deter the person from making an effort to win you over.
If you play hard to get with your ex, they might just find it simpler to let you go and move on to someone who is simpler to catch!
Tell your ex that you want to win him back and are ready, willing, and able to mend the relationship.
Tell your ex that you’re prepared to go the extra mile to save your relationship this time.
Instead of playing hard to get, that strategy will likely increase your chances of reconciliation.
Can I push my ex to make them want me again?
Trying to get someone to do something they don’t want to is a sure-fire way to upset them.
Too many reminders can start to sound nagging, whether you’re trying to get someone to complete a task or remember to pick up something after work.
Pressuring your ex to accept you back will come off as nagging, annoying, and unpleasant as well.
Your ex might decide that it’s easier not to be around you because all you do is moan, nag, and complain about the breakup.
By making an excessive effort to patch things up, you risk alienating your ex and failing to win him back.
By making an excessive effort to mend the relationship, you might end up alienating your ex even more.
Alternately, try this approach.
In a previous session, I talked about free online resources that provide information on tried-and-true strategies for reuniting with an ex-spouse, ex-boyfriend, or ex-girlfriend.
Stop requesting your ex’s return. Once you’ve stated your desire to win him back or reunite with him, they are aware of your intentions.
They comprehend your desire to reconcile once you have stated it clearly.
With no expectations, let it be the main focus as you continue being a good friend to your ex.
This might be challenging, especially at first, but if your ex sees that you’re actually a nice person to be around and not a nag, they’ll want to spend more time with you.
And that could result in the couple reconciling and getting back together.
If your ex fears seeing you and hearing you nag about returning, you at least have a better chance of succeeding.
Will making him envious allow me to win him back?
You are the closest to your ex. If jealousy had previously been successful, it might do so once more.
Jealousy might once more be effective if it has in the past. They might become enraged and decide that since you’ve moved on, they will follow suit because they are so envious of you.
They might become so envious of you that they become angry and decide that since you’ve moved on with your life, they will too.
Even if they’re seeing someone else, can I get my ex back?
Though it’s the most challenging scenario, it’s possible. Don’t worry about being perfect; just focus on being entertaining and fun to be around.
See what happens.
If you’re determined to get him back, there are some things you can do.
Keep in mind that urging your ex to forgive you will come off as both irksome and bothersome.
(Please note, I also suggest searching the web for more helpful material on topics like, “Her account of how she managed to win him back and her strategy for reconciliation.)
Happy love and life to you!
